An Expat’s Take on Life in Spain

Sure, starting anew in a different country, in a language you don’t quite master, can be a challenge. But life is also an adventure, and sometimes you just have to roll up your sleeves and step out of your comfort zone.

When I arrived here in Valencia, I hardly knew anyone besides my partner and his mom. They’re both lovely, of course, but I needed to build a social life, being someone who thrives on meeting new people. Back in San Francisco, I was surrounded by friends of all kinds for 19 years – different backgrounds, nationalities, and styles.

Arriving just before COVID hit didn’t make it easy to make friends, I’ll admit. But once things returned to normal, I joined Facebook groups and meet-up groups, where I met some fantastic people who are now friends.

Many folks like me have made life changes around my age, craving new connections, friendships, and exchanges. Whether it’s picnics, language exchanges, or other activities, there’s something for everyone, making it a superb way to form new circles of friends.

I highly recommend joining Meetup or expat groups on Facebook to make new connections and build essential social ties in a community.

Now, I even organize a 4th of July beach gathering every year because it’s one of my favorite US celebrations. Everyone brings a dish to share, and we always have a blast. I’ve made many friendships this way too.

Sure, moving to another country isn’t for everyone, and I get that. But at the same time, it’s so incredibly rewarding to experience new things, immerse yourself in a different environment, and meet new people. It adds so much richness to life !

From my experience, living in Spain is wonderful, and I highly recommend it. 🇪🇸